This week, pupils were treated to a remarkable assembly from Miss Eleanor Trafford, Deputy Director of Co-Curriculum, Teacher of English – and European Champion with the England Over-40s hockey team.
Against the backdrop of an extraordinary summer for women’s sport, Miss Trafford began by celebrating the triumphs of the Lionesses and the Red Roses, before sharing her own story of representing England at the European Championships in Valencia and the Home Nations in Glasgow.
“Representing your country is something that a lot of sportspeople dream of, and I was lucky enough to get that opportunity this year,” she told the boys.
Her team’s mantra, “Gold medal standards. Gold medal mentality”, proved prophetic as England stormed through the tournament in sweltering conditions, eventually beating Wales 1–0 in the Valencia final to be crowned European Champions.
“The euphoria was almost indescribable,” Miss Trafford recalled. “Success is more satisfying if you have worked so hard to get there – and we had, individually and collectively.”
“Success is more satisfying if you have worked so hard to get there - and we had, individually and collectively.”
She went on to explain how the squad carried their form into the Home Nations in Glasgow, where they swept aside Wales 6–2 and confirmed their dominance on the international stage.
But Miss Trafford’s message to the pupils was not just about medals. She reflected on the importance of perseverance and resilience, noting that she had failed to make the England squad two years ago.
“I hate trials,” she admitted with a smile, describing how she bounced back, worked harder, and ultimately earned her place. “You never know who is watching or what it could lead to.”
She also emphasised the role of teamwork and support: “No matter how strong you are, you can’t do these things alone. You need other people’s support and their advice.”
The hall listened intently as Miss Trafford described playing in 38°C heat, drinking three litres of water per match, and leaving “nothing to chance” in her preparation. Her honesty about challenges – and her excitement for the future – struck a chord with the boys.
Her closing message was clear: sport is not just a pastime, but a training ground for life. “Experiences in different contexts give you resilience, challenge you, and teach you that perseverance matters.”
Judging by the buzz in the room, the boys left not just impressed by their teacher’s achievements, but inspired to pursue their own passions with the same dedication and courage.
